What is this group? 

This group provides a local space in the Tooting, London area for gay men (Gay, Bi and Trans men) to meet to speak and connect in the spirit of being authentic and real. Gay men have much in common in terms of a shared/similar way of being and a shared history of growing up and being gay. The group is conducted as an Encounter Group, which is an an environment that can help with self-awareness, growth and development, and with authentic connection with self and others. 


Encounter Group

The encounter group style was developed by Carl Rogers, an American psychotherapist, and stems from his approach to psychotherapy and personal growth and development, the person-centred approach. The group is unstructured in nature and can change each time depending on what people bring to discuss and who is in attendance. The group is a confidential space and people are asked to engage in a manner respectful of this and of others – this helps people feel safe and to be open to exploring experiences, challenges and beliefs in a safe, accepting and warm environment. See below for links to further information about Carl Rogers and encounter groups so you can get a further idea about what they are like. 

  • Informational websites about Carl Rogers: 



  • A YouTube video about encounter groups "Journey Into Self" Carl Rogers: 



  • A paper by Carl Rogers: My Way of Facilitating a Group:


Is this group for me?

The group is for 18 years of age and upwards. To join it is important that you have an interest in self-growth and development and an authentic connection with yourself and others. This is a Tooting-based group however you do not have to live in Tooting to join. See below also for contact details for further information. 

When, where, and is there a charge?

Meetings are on the 2nd Wednesday evening of each month for 2 hours (7-9pm). Due to the pandemic the group currently meets online (using Zoom). The group is currently free as meeting online, however future contribution to room rental charges will apply when meeting in person in Tooting. 

Contact and booking a place in a group meeting

For further information please contact Jeremy by phone (07493 095373) or by email (tgmwb2020@gmail.com). Before joining a group meeting a chat by phone will take place to discuss about the group and I can answer any questions that you may have - this is also to help hold and maintain safety for the group.    

About me/Jeremy

I am a person-centred counsellor and psychotherapist based in southwest London. I have a keen interest in community and the well-being and growth/development of gay men facilitated through the encounter group process. I have a long history of group involvement and more recent training in group facilitation from City Lit in London. My practice website is here: https://www.jeremyosullivancounselling.com.  

Quotes by Carl Rogers

“In such a group the individual comes to know himself and each of the others more completely than is possible in the usual social or working relationships.”

“There is no organised encounter group. There is simply a freedom of expression - of feelings and thoughts - on any personally relevant issue.”


“I believe that individuals nowadays are probably more aware of their inner loneliness than has ever been true before in history.”